Sandi,

If you see this.
Can you explain some of the things that made you start to see through the fog?
I have no expectations of this happening with my WW, but where We MAY be able to communicate again coming up soon i want to be as prepared to identify her behaviors as i can be.

I know seeing logically through the smokescreen of emotions will be a huge challenge for me after so long out of communication.
I know she will have the power overcome my resolve if she chooses her words and actions right.

are there Any indicators you can think of i should look for that she is drifting back? Or further away? that A is ending, or getting more serious?
If she is feeling remorse? or scorn?
What are some tell tale signs i should look for?

Red flags and / or Green ones?

just trying to be as prepared as i can.
the next 2 months are gonna be tough. I can do it.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds