WW moved out. Whirlwind of emotions

[reframe]

Hey guys, a minor victory today, that was still surprisingly hard.

This morning I unfollowed her on instagram.
She messaged me today and asked if I wanted to climb sometime.

I responded "Hey! thanks for the invite. Not right now."
I got a response of "OK..."

I didn't respond, or offer any more information.
On one hand this feels really good, like I'm slowly getting my spine back and not accepting the crumbs she's throwing at me.

On the other hand, letting go of the PERCEIVED opportunity to spend time/connect/etc is still really hard.
I know this is the right way to handle this, and that I can't "nice" her back. But...