Hi everyone, Recently my husband told me he didn't love me anymore but he cared for me and wants a divorce. He's taken off his ring already and says that he was approved for an apartment. Meanwhile he's barely packed and comes home from work and act cautious when I'm cooking dinner and waits til I offer an extra plate.

There is a LOT to his story regarding grief of lost loved ones, stress, he had an EA. Hes in a very bad place and acts like he doesn't know what he wants. I can get into later but for now, I've been being casual, not chasing him, being polite and going to bed on a nice note before he turns in on the couch. Should I be offering him dinner with me and our son, doing his laundry while I do ours, etc or stop all of that stuff to give him his space. I'm just confused on what exactly I shouldn't be doing besides chasing him.

Thanks!


Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019