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She will say things like "I'm hungry and don't know what to eat" and thinks that is her way of directly asking me to go make her some food


Even if that is her signal for you to jump and fix her some food.........why would you? (You are too accommodating). She can either fix what you have prepared, or she can get what she wants. I am not the best at giving examples of come-back responses b/c my tongue is a little sharp for most cases. I would probably say something like, "Sounds like a problem", and leave at that. If she doesn't know what she wants, how the heck are you suppose to know?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!