Hi Sandi2, I've been pouring through your threads and have some questions. We have blended financials, and WW is looking to start a new business. One of your suggestions is to basically split finances to put her on her own - remove the 'safety net' as it were. Though I understand your point (if you want out, here's what it looks like), but at the same time, because of the particular point in time of financial stress as it is (her stress), I fear coming across as bullying financially.
During one of our bigger fights, I made the mistake of telling her something to the effect of 'good luck sustaining your lifestyle the OM'. She has brought up many times since how much that hurt her and how she now questions whether she's staying around for the wrong reasons (financial) instead of the right ones (love/commitment).
