The wayward wife thread has been super insightful, and actually is quite applicable.
Reading through those items though, they're rough.

"Immediately separate the sleeping arrangements"
One of my short-term actionable goals to view if the marriage is progressing is that we go to bed together twice a week.

I see the point of showing the WW what losing the H looks like, but what's the consensus when that is simultaneously something that is viewed as progress in the marriage restoration?
As I write this, I feel like maybe it's only restoration if the A has stopped?