Originally Posted By: bhappy2
W has been very talkative with me but its all for show and wants to be friendly, I made the mistake of saying why dont we go talk things over lunch she immediately said maybe, so that means no way. I am glad I caught myself...whoa...


A slip up like this is okay. I remember early on in my sitch, making mistakes like this almost out of habit. Pursuit? Yes a tad. But what if she had said "Okay"? You never know if "talktive" means more until you do a small temp check. That's what I would call this. No this isn't pure DBing, but if you know my sitch at all you know I did a big mishmash of DBing and reconnecting. It worked, or seems to be working, in my sitch. But everyone will need to decide what is best for their sitch.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018