As for counseling, continue to go by yourself. He won't listen to what the counselor has to say and he's no where near being ready for this step.[/quote]
Can not agree with this any more !!!!!!!! I encourage my husband to have counseling, he did go there and the counselor and him were exchanging the thoughts of 'divorce' and she encourage husband to do whatever he likes to... later husband had physic affair with 20 year old girl... that was so extremely terrible
