I would pack her stuff in a box or boxes and put them in a storage room or garage. When she says she needs to stop to get something or her stuff give her, her boxes.
The issue with the beds. Instead of giving her money. You can offer to get your kids bed. You don't want your kids sleeping on the floor no matter what is going on between you and your W. Make it an outing and let your W know you are taking to kids to pick out there new beds. If she responds in an ungrateful manner, then you know what she was expecting. Second, beds don't cost $2000.
Get the beds and keep it moving. This is her new reality. Also by you taking the kids, they get to see what an awesome dad they have.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
