Thanks, Orange. That's what i needed to hear. When she's not around or Im not talking to her, I know what I need to do. When she's around or I'm talking to her, I buckle. I need to work on that...
Also, I went ahead and made a trip to the hardware store and bought a new deadbolt and changed the lock. I feel like she doesn't need to be stopping over here during the day when I'm not around so she can pick and choose what she wants to take. Next step, what do I do with the rest of her stuff that's here? It's mostly just clothes. Should I pack it up and dump it on her porch, or should I wait until she contacts me to get it?...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019