I agree, and I am a codependent. Because anyone else would have been turned off by how fast she was moving in the R. I thought I was her knight and shining armor. That she had been dealt some bad relationships and I could build her self esteem up.
You may wish to explore Ross Rosenberg on codependency. There are many great resources to help you.
Including 12 stepping in CODA. 12 stepping was very useful to me and attending CODA may help with your court case too. Some good CBT therapy and resolving FOO (family of origin) issues with IC is very paramount.
There are also abuse groups for men, some online which provide resources and online counselling. I think this is essential if you aren't going to carry this forward.
No doubt your L will point out you were invite to break the order. Please don't do that again.
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Could you elaborate on not carrying it forward? And what is L?
