Oh WOW! I cannot believe you mentioned BPD. My friend has a masters degree in substance abuse counselling which he studied mental health and DSMv manual. He said she is text book BPD and I'm a codependent. I was arrested for both violations and go to court next month. My lawyer is pleading guilty and is trying to keep me from doing any jail time. He said I clearly violated the order but The violations are so minor unlike some clients he has that chase the someone around with a baseball bat. I found a con lit in a journal of her's that she left. It lists Inability to communicate well Presumptive Insecure Lacks parental skills Lacks logical thinking Lies Sneaky Deceptive Self pity "victim" mentality Cares too much of others opinion of me Lazy Blames others Selfish Emotionally high maintenance Ashamed Venomous words "Something wrong with me" Runs from conflict Shuts down I don't like myself Do not trust Easily influenced by environment -------------------------------------
