Hanging On (Saying ILY Pt. 2)

[OrangeK]

Totally not wrong. She is fishing for money dude. My WW did the same thing at the end of 2017 because she knew i got my Fire Dept stipend check. She fed me breadcrumbs, asked for $250 and then once i gave it to her, and she got what she wanted it was back to the same old avoidance tactics and lying.
She didn't work for that 2k. Dont give it to her. If she left, she left the comfort and security of your marriage thereby making you not responsible for her fiscal responsibilities. If she didn't have the $$ to afford beds for her kids she shouldn't have moved out. Just because she says its for the beds for the kids doesn't mean it all would go to that, some would likely be spent on dates with OM.
be polite but stand your ground. Say you need the money to make sure your kids are happy and healthy. Not your responsibility to furnish her affair pad.

My WW has had her Parents harping me for tax info all month. They had months to approach me to get taxes filed. When i presented options that worked for both parties i was turned down, and my F.I.L just requested copies of my W2 and SS#. I politely told them i wasn't willing to hand over financial info to someone who wouldn't speak to me (my wife) and let someone else file MY taxes without me present. They must think I'm High. They only reach out when they need something, until they see you are done bending over backwards for them, the expectation will endure.