i know it's hard but you have a habit of always considering the past. you really need to work on not doing that because really it does not do anything for you
you have been told more than once, shoot, we all have, that the past is the past (why do i think of that scene in lion king where rufiki hits simba on the head with the stick???)
we can do NOTHING about the past, only now, ONLY NOW - we cannot even dictate our future but for doing things in the NOW that will CHANGE things in the future.
hate to quote brian tracy, no i don't hate to...
Quote: Perhaps the most important corollary to the law of cause and effect is this – “thoughts are causes” and “conditions are effects”. Your mind is the most powerful force in your universe. A man becomes what he thinks about most of the time. You are where you are and what you are because of your habitual ways of thinking. Your thoughts are creative, and they ultimately create your reality. So if you change your thinking, you change your life.
please really, REALLY digest that. that single paragraph is way so important
please put the past behind you pam, that is where it belongs.
