To clarify - she didn't saw the second bit to me.
I thought her realization that maybe she needed to be alone for a bit was a glimmer of self awareness.

It was something she posted (publicly) to instagram.

She routinely posts vomit inducing posts about how self actualized and wonderful her healing journey is there. That said, it's still her posting something publicly knowing that I can see it, and clearly having zero regard for my feelings. To be fair, she's demonstrated (many times) over the last few months that she has very little regard for anything besides what she wants.

I really wish I could just not engage with her man - I'm doing "OK" with all this except on the occasions when I have to interact with her, or when I see crap like this.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18