So, I guess my best option is to just go NC and quit worrying about everything. Another thing I was wondering about was an issue with taxes. I have been the sole provider for years. W got a job bartending this past December. She didn't even make enough to have to file, yet still wanted to split the refund. I told her no. Anyway, we went to file together, and at the end she asked if she could have $2000 put into her account. I said no, and told her I would file separately instead. She asked the accountant how much she would get back if she filed separately, and that's when she found out she didn't even make enough to file because they didn't take anything out. She then asked if she could claim one of the kids, and he informed her that she couldn't because she had nothing to file. So, she got mad and we went to talk about it later. She asked again for $2000 so she could get beds for the kids so they could stay with her a few nights a week. I reluctantly agreed. Now, after this latest instance of me discovering she spent the night with another guy, I really don't feel like giving her the money. Am I wrong for thinking this?...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...