Honestly at this point - stop engaging with her. I know that you're not initiating this, but whatever she's telling you, just take it and let it dust off your shoulder.
She wants to travel, she wants to do therapy, she wants eat banana pudding for dinner - who gives a giant f#$%ing $hit. You give ZERO f#$%s about it.
She's dating a 'beautiful soul' - man, I just threw up a little in my mouth reading that. So much disrespect and having no qualms about how you're feeling.
None of this is a glimmer of self-awareness. Someone who is self-aware wouldn't be saying what she's saying. You have no idea why she's going into therapy - maybe she wants to get rid of her guilt. Who knows?
What do you do now? Give ZERO f*&$ks.
There are serious examples of LBS's here who just hung on to their partners and didn't go dark and found ways to keep in contact and engage and let the disrespect continue. They added MONTHS and MONTHS to their healing and recovery period. Don't do that.
