Today the wife messaged me and mentioned that she was seriously considering buying a van and solo traveling for awhile.
She also posted on facebook looking for affordable liberal cities to possibly move to. (I unfollowed her there, a mutual friend told me about this)
I mentioned in our conversation that I thought she said that she didn't want to be a nomad any more (we had planned on traveling together) and she said she wasn't sure what she wants, but she needs to do some soul searching and she can't do it here.
This struck me as a glimmer of self awareness on her part, of a realization that she needs to ACTUALLY work on herself. Perhaps a start of the journey toward her coming around.
A few hours later she posted that she had a therapist appointment, and she was dating a beautiful soul and was getting everything she needed.
It appears that it's still a roller coaster ride with her.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
