When got home this evening had e-mail from CHL on settlement proposal. He is trying to work it out where I can keep the house but I still don't see any way I can do that. I would love to have the house as I do really like it.
I called and spoke with him for a bit, I think we were both a bit stressed but also both seemed to be working on communicating clearly.
I suggested that we both try to be as direct as possible with one another and we both try to work on making ASSumptions about what the other is saying to see if this helps us with future communication.
He agreed.
He is also planning to read the crazymaking posts on Betsey's thread. I told him about them as we had discussed them before.
I just wish I had gotten better control of my emotions much sooner.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
