Hanging On (Saying ILY Pt. 2)

[joejoe1]

MTB,

You are done yet and your W knows that. You know that. You are wanting her to stop talking to OM and come home. (This is want all LBS wants).

When you are done and she will know and feel when you are done. When you are done, you want care if she stops. You will stop searching and checking on her.

When you are done you Will focus soley on your kids and yourself.

You W got that apartment to have the best of both worlds. To have access to both options.

When you are done you want make yourself an option no more. Once that happens, she will have to work to get you back. Going to MC at this point want help, because she hasn't cut off the OM. Don't bring up MC until you see her doing the work and she sends a no contact message or letter that you approve of.

She's only trying to appease you at the moment. But when you show her you are done thru your actions, she will have to work to appease you.

Don't tell her how you know what you know. Just present the facts from now on, and not how you gathered them.