mtb, this is why you never reveal the source of your intel. This is the same mistake I made with my wife early on. Got the advice to keep it a secret once I joined this forum. She too would shut down any method I used to check up on her.

Yeah she is definitely lying though. And the MC and wanting to make things better is just to keep you in a holding pattern. My wife did this for the first 2 months after BD as well. Every time I tried to talk to her about working on the MR, she would run the other way. As soon as I talked about a) moving forward with D, b) telling our daughter what was going on c) that I was fed up and done, she'd start talking about wanting to work on things, about hoping MC would help, about just needing to figure things out.

It is like I've quoted many times, WSs and WASs don't need their own place to "figure things out". They need their own place to sleep with other people.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018