It's nice to be the belle of the ball, so to speak, but it is hard when you are an introvert and you really need that down time. I'm glad for you, though, coconut. Glad that you have options. Here's hoping you find your happy medium soon.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids