Hanging On (Saying ILY Pt. 2)

[mtb1981]

Confronted W yesterday, and she denied, denied, denied. The "reason" she showed up on the Snapchat map at that location was because she was hanging out at the house across the street with her girlfriend. The "reason" her van was parked behind the hotel was because she can't park her van at her friend's apartment building, which happens to be in a neighboring town. The "reason" she didn't just park her van at her rental house was because that's she just happened to be driving near the hotel when she and her friend decided to go hang out and spend the night together. Her whole story stinks, and I'm not buying it. I told her I was over the whole situation, that divorce was the last thing I wanted, but I am not willing to deal with this kind of BS. She went from angry and defensive, telling me that SHE was done with me not trusting her, to trying to convince me it wasn't what it looked like and wanting me to believe her...

I again told her I didn't buy her story and that I was done. That if there were any chance of us having a R in the future, it would have to be her doing the work, because I've been the only one trying to make it work now. She then asked what she could do. I told her that was up to her. She said she wanted to make an appointment for MC because she really wants things to get better. That right now she just needs time and space to herself to figure out who she is so she can be a better person and mother (notice she did not say wife). I told her that if she wanted to call and make the appointment, I would go, but that she also needed to look into getting some IC as well. I honestly doubt that she will even make the appointment...

Also, after I mentioned I knew where she was because of the snapchat map, she magically disappeared from the map. Same thing happened a month ago on Facebook. I was scrolling through the newsfeed and the nearby friends popped up and she was not in the town she claimed to be in. Poof! Never appeared in nearby friends again. If this doesn't scream that she's got something to hide, I don't know what does....