It is our 3rd wedding annv today. I have been dark, and only responding with one words if important for a couple weeks. W just texted me: "I was thinking about you today, and no mater what happens i will always LY."
don't respond to that drivel... she is cruel... she says she knows you deserve better, blah, blah, blah... yet she sends this temp-checking crumb... no matter what happens? that says she knows you have not moved on... that you are still waiting for her... she wants you to say the same back to her... if you had not gotten together with her to divide wedding gifts (3 years later???) you would have been so much further along... you were doing well... even when she tried to squeeze in when your grandmother passed, you handled her well...
in my opinion, you and PsychSara have added months and months to your "recovery" time because you keep engaging with your WW spouses...
don't feed your W's self-centered craziness... stay DARK... honestly, how much important business do you two have between the two of you right now?
