FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), I suffer from it... Our singles group is going strong, used to be just the meetup leader was setting meets, but now people are having her create outings and I try and make any that I'm able, but it's getting out of control.

Everyone wants me to go, I get texts asking me if I'm going, then I get texts saying I was missed and wish I was there. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad that I'm fun enough that people like being around me, but I need to work on making more time for myself, I'm an introvert and sometimes get a bit overwhelmed with everyone around. So I pick days that I'm not going to fill, then I get invited to something that seems really fun and the internal struggle begins.

It's kinda crazy that I spend a year after moving here pretty much alone, and now I can't find time to be alone.. there's got to be a happy median, I just need to navigate to that place.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized