A lot of absuing spouses ramp up when there is an op in the wings.
I'm pretty sure they ramp up the abuse to get yo,u to leave but keep you hanging as plan b. We because we care hang about and try to save the m. This they want while they are building up the r withthe new person.
In my case he hit my son, amongst other much more serious things, because he had an ow with more income and less wise to his tricks. I had worked out on some levels thatthings were not right but I didn't realise till he left it was him stealing money from my wallet etc.
To save an abuse stich and it's possible if they own their side, in my case he was too busy with the ow blaming me for all our dramas to look within. He I doubt will ever do that, I suspectthe ow will have a much rougher time than I did as she seems to think she's pretty smart to human behivour.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
