MY XH did all 3
first a drop in for the first 1-1/2 years
then a droplet for a short time
now a drop out since 2009
I heard from him 1x only since 2009

River
I'm sorry I know how hard it is especially in the beginning
The pain will ease and eventually we let go totally
I'm sure there are stories where they go no contact for a time and them reappear..


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow