MY XH did all 3 first a drop in for the first 1-1/2 years then a droplet for a short time now a drop out since 2009 I heard from him 1x only since 2009
River I'm sorry I know how hard it is especially in the beginning The pain will ease and eventually we let go totally I'm sure there are stories where they go no contact for a time and them reappear..
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow