Maika -

thanks again. You provide excellent advice here.
The coaches tend to be a bit "softer" - I wasn't advocating this approach, just responding to "Along" who asked how my coach would suggest handling this.

He generally encourages a much softer approach. Up until a few weeks ago, I tended to agree with his approach to.

Now, I think being a little more assertive may be in order.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18