So, a new question for you guys.


The W is continuing to temp check me pretty hard. She's going out of her way to be friendly and show how well she's doing. She also noticed (and commented on), that I seem to be doing well, and that I'm "mr.serious business" with her

She hasn't outright asked me to do anything in a week or so, but I'm pretty sure it's coming.

When it does, I'm not sure how to respond to this. The attitude I see here is "not while you are involved with OM".

That's fine but I feel like saying that sounds punitive, which my coach strongly discouraged.
On the other hand, saying something like "I'm not ready to be friendly yet" sounds, a little weak.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18