Are you a single dad in the sense that she left you with primary custody of the kids? How old are your children?
Reflecting back, were there signs of selfishness? I dont mean signs that you could predict this type of discardment. I mean signs of maybe a frustrating selfishness, or need for attention or materialism? m
Jujub, We share custody equally , something I'm sure surprised her and ex-in laws. I didn't have kids to abandon them especially when they need stable parents the most.
As far as the materialism it was a slow learn for me. I mean who doesn't like nice things... but for her it's different. Is more of a sense of entitlement. She "bought" into me thinking her life would be a certain way. When it didn't quite live up to her standards or those of who she compared lives too, she became dissatisfied. I played the game and have the debt to prove it.
I guess jujub I expected more out of her character than she actually had.0
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016
