A little background refresher, my ex decided to bail on 15yr marriage without as much as a "hey I'm dissatisfied with x and x ". No work to try to salvage anything other than her reputation. I'm not ignorant and know good marriages don't "fail" and know I'm responsible for my share of issues. Upon leaving I was given a laundry list of "issues" that caused her departure. The key phrase being ilybinilwy. I just didn't make her "happy" anymore. Never once did she mention any blame of her own, it was placed solely on my shoulders.
This is exactly what happened with me as well. Just baffling. No work on salvaging the MR. Never brought up her dissatisfaction with anything. I was also the sole cause of all her problems and she not once took blame for anything.
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Fast forward through the manditory wait for divorce to be "official"... and two days later she was engaged... 5 mo later she's getting married... again
haha. i am in the mandatory waiting period before D can be filed. W had an EA with OM who was also separated from his W. So, they fed each other. Not sure what happened and if it's fizzled out or if it's going on. I am curious to see what happens when the mandatory waiting period is over.
She has not taken any steps to address her issues.
Sorry to hear the situation and yes, you have to give a rat's a$$ as kids are involved to navigate this garbage for them.
