I feel like you may have missed Ginger's point. I think she was saying that you may need to sacrifice something you enjoy doing (going to local bars where you know a lot of people) to keep you're wife away from an environment that is not healthy to a solid MR. I refer to local bars like you describe as a "Hookup House", and your W seems susceptible to advances of the males that attend these bars and have gotten good at knowing what to say to hook a girl quickly.
Not to mention that then she "plays innocent" later. Hoosjim you don't buy her explanation about "I don't know why they'd think that!" do you?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
