Things moving fast. Twists & turns.(hoosjim's 15th

[Coconut]

I feel like you may have missed Ginger's point. I think she was saying that you may need to sacrifice something you enjoy doing (going to local bars where you know a lot of people) to keep you're wife away from an environment that is not healthy to a solid MR. I refer to local bars like you describe as a "Hookup House", and your W seems susceptible to advances of the males that attend these bars and have gotten good at knowing what to say to hook a girl quickly.