In some ways your situation sounds like I would imagine mine to have gone if my ex had second thoughts. She was never one to deal with difficult issues, especially ones that made her feel bad.
I would think that in much of the non-DB world where we have given a lot of thought to what a "proper" reconciliation would look like that things do get "swept under the rug".
If you are OK with that and the possibility that there may be unresolved issues that may rear their head in the future then things may work out.
We don't get the futures we dream of. I think that the trick is to live in the present we have.
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On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells