Lady V, this in incredible news on the health front!!
And I absolutely love everything else that you said as well.
A wise woman once said to me 'what you allow is what will continue'. She was someone in the industry, and I think she knew about XH and his affair. I think she was telling me (but I didn't quite understand what she meant, fully, because I honestly didn't think that my H could cheat). Well, there we go.
The ball is rolling now, you have proof that extreme self care works! And it's the path to go down.