He is still sweet, loving, kind, and attentive. He says the problem is his and he knows it. He just won't DO anything about it. Last year he went to see a psychiatrist several times and he asked how I felt about it. I said he was free to do whatever he felt he should do. But personally I thought there was a better way. Just go get physically checked out and get the blue pill. Problem solved and then if there are psychological issues to work on, take your time. In my experience, psychiatrists do nothing fast and you can be in therapy all your life and see no concrete results. So might as well take care of the sex problem!