Short version:

I am spending more time on GAL. I have rekindled an old passion that does not involve w or kids.

W got rid of her MLC pet that none of us liked.

W and I had a date 3. W kissed me on theips. Not open mouthed, but first kiss on the lips in a very long time.

Good days are outnumbering the bad days.

We still avoid all R talks. W is wanting to spend more time with me and the kids, but still values her alone time.

Stay strong and patient. One day at a time. Let go and let God.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving