Quote: The only plus is it means I don't have to do anything to have a home. But that also feels like a cope out, do you sort of know what I mean?
I know this was likely just a typo but perhaps it's also a Freudian slip?
It doesn't have to be HARD to do something to make it worthwhile.
Let me try something out on you...it's an ASSumption on my part so it may certainly not fit....but here goes....
The other day you posted about leaving the BB because you had encountered another moment where you felt as though CHL wouldn't be changing his mind...I posted to you and asked what it would take for you to see us as resources...not just when you're feeling as though you're doing OK but also when you're not....
It seems to me (ASSumption warning) that you're reluctant to ask others to help you COPE...us, your parents, etc.
Do you think that's true for you?
Is there a way for you to not see this as a dead end but as KK suggested a step along the path to a new life?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.