Steve85. Thanks. I am looking up Cadets and Ithurts thread now.
YES, I have to detach more. This is a must, very hard, but a must.
Again, thanks for the input and the support.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18