Finding Solutions, Not Distractions..

[Coconut]

What a great weekend.. Game night turned into more of a party, there were a few games played, but most of the night was spent socializing, dancing, sitting around the fire, etc...

Also, there was a behind the scenes secret plan of turning this into a housewarming party, I had no idea and really didn't know what to say when people started giving me cards and gifts. It made me bit uncomfortable for people to give me gifts, but I really appreciated the thought that went into making the night partly about me.

The two ladies who planned on staying over did, there was also a guy and girl who ended up staying over. We stayed up talking until about 4 in the morning, then went to bed. While there was no orgy planned, I did have the offer for a FWB type night, but I immediately felt uncomfortable about it (maybe because there were so many others staying) so I just let her know that I didn't think that was a good idea tonight.

Not sure why, but all of us were up by 8 am, so I made some coffee and we sat out on the front porch drinking coffee, everyone was talking about how they felt like they were on vacation at a cabin in the woods and were really enjoying themselves. We stayed on the porch a couple of hours and then went out for breakfast.

After breakfast, everyone went home then we met back up at my house about 4 hours later to go see a play that a friend was acting in. The play was in a big city about an hour away so we drove together. Then after the play we walked around down town and had a late dinner. Didn't get home until after midnight, so everyone just grabbed some leftover food from the party and headed home.

I was absolutely exhausted and slept until noon the next day (I am one of those early risers and don't know if I've ever slept until noon before), then I just made Sunday a relaxing day at home binge watching.

I did get to spend some alone time chatting with gamer girl (GG). I'm starting to wonder if I have some sort of radar that makes me find and fall for woman with troubled / rough pasts. Everything I've learned about her are things that I don't logically want in someone, but I still find myself very attracted to her.

I asked her out for dinner and a movie at my place next Saturday, I've decided to take some time and see if I can decide one way or the other how I want to proceed. If the date goes well, then I'll open up about what I know about her to get some opinions, but I want to wait until after the date.