Well clearly Ginger had a lot to say on the subject. Lol
I really wonder if your wife doesn't require constant validation? Perhaps she craves it? I don't think this as much consious as subconscious. She's not looking for anything to happen with these guys - only qwell her need for acceptance and validation. She needs to feel attractive and interesting - especially to guys 10 years younger than her.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D