I went on a short trip with friends last week. When I came back home, I sat and talked to W about the trip. She initiated R talk, so I listened and validated when I could. Her phone rang during the R talk, and it was the ex boyfriend. She looked at her phone and then put it down. I asked if it was him, and she said that yes it was, but that he wasn't her priority right now and that she didn't want to talk to him. She still claims that they are only friends and that she doesn't want to rekindle their old relationship. R talk lasted a while longer, ending with things that we could do to try and fix our M. She is still not sleeping in the MBR, and although has seemed "softer" since the R talk, has shown no real action. I guess maybe I am looking for any sign of things turning around.


M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house