waw maybe #3

[bhappy2]

No wedge at all, I still love my family as hard as this will be. The problem is they know its her, they know she will not seek any help or counceling. Thats what is so bothersome to them, remember everything has been a secret for so long and now they are getting bombarded with the reality that they have to move and pay for an apartment. Along with not living with their family. It is complex but can be done.

The area where I live a 2 bedroom apartment is around $1800 (with a dog $2200) it is more then my mortgage on my house. There is no way aroung not selling my house unless W decides she wants to back off on wanting half of everything.

My concern is for my children (young adults) being thrown into a sitch that they had no control over, they will barely be able to afford their rent, let alone car insurance, food ... etc.etc.