Hey there Zues! Very nice to hear from you! Yeah I don't agree that i should have set the date. Not in any way. It's not my place to do that. I did my "man" part by initiating the contact yesterday. It was her that suggested we meet again. Therefore it is her that can make sure that happens now. Or not... whatever. But I don't regret not setting the date and I think that would have been a colossal mistake making me look too eager and excited. It's HER turn for being eager to meet again. I did my part by initiating contact yesterday...she took the ball and ran and now she can make sure it happens. If she wants it bad enough she'll do it. And I totally believe she will be arranging this second meet up soon. But yes, no way do I think jumping on her suggestion to meet by getting a a date would have been a good idea. Glad to hear from a site vet on this. I hope you are well Zues my friend!!! Really cool to see you still around these parts!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14