Thats good stuff J9, Thanks for the pep talk, part of my issue is this:
I said to her "You told me you wanted a D in May 2017, but you wait until jan 2018 to file. Then you wait until 4/13/18 to tell your L to proceed with D.
Just a little update:
W made 3K dollars more than me last year. This is not going to be what she thought. Oh well the pot of gold she thought was waiting for her is not there. Plus she made the mistake of taking out her 401K without telling me or her L. Big mistake.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20