So I decided it was good time to catch up on Betsey's thread, but I found it rather depressing reading.
I believe that is because I see myself in a lot of the posts. A part of that is probably true and a part my tendency to personalize things which I am working on.
I guess the thing that really hit was the post about no hope for saving marriages and within week or month being divorced, which is where I am at. On the other hand I think the dbing has majorly improved me and my relationship with my h, with a possibility of a peaceful ending and maybe a friendship to continue. I don't know if I can manage the friendship if he marries my ex friend, but we'll see what happens.
Hmmm..Just writing this out has made me feel better.
That was luck Sage that I still had it and yes I had deleted it, just wasn't sure it said anything.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
