Telling her that you are angry is a waste of your breath. How about the contamination that you brought to the marriage. This isnt a 'her fault' kind of deal. It takes two to make a relationship work, and you putting that blame on her is disowning your share.
I know I have a part in this breakdown of our relationship, but I cannot and will not take responsibility for her affair. Which is the reason we have not been able to begin Rec the marriage and the impetus for the D.
---------------- Me-53 W-50 T-16 M-13 Bomb drop 1-16-18 Discovered EA 1-23-18 Discovered PA 2-2-18 Still involved with OM WW moved out 3-29-18