For me, it's a turn off to see a man play it so safe, (God forbid he go out on a limb for little ol' me)
It's as if
1) I'm not worth him taking the risk of being rejected; and or
2) as if he can't handle the possible rejection.
Just my .02
I am dating a nice guy ("M") now. He read me an article saying that we should ALL only be with people we really want to be with AND let them know it.
So when someone asks me "Oh, 25, do you still want to date M?"
My answer better be "F--- YES!" (Sometimes we have to get to know them to know they are that worthy, b/c there will always be some risk). But we need to go for what we want and not play these high school games.
Life is too short to be with someone who "sort of" wants to be with me OR doesn't want me to know how he feels b/c then he'd lose...WHAT????
Your "Power"?
Sorry but I think you are playing this all wrong. We are ALL afraid of being hurt again.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016