A familiar story with questions. IV

[RR17]

So my current state is one of a holding pattern. W and I get along peachy. Like Bffs and who wouldn't with her yacking about her day and my validating without requiring much attention of my own.
Still have no idea if there is current OM and most of the time I doubt it. Last EA she started exercising and buying new clothes ect., in anticipation of a physical meetup. I don't see that this time.

Those that have followed my sitch may have noticed that occasionally I get a suspicion and it sends me to a dark place. But most of the time I logically don't see the signs I noticed last time. Not at the current time.

So as I hold and wait to see if she follows through on her expressed plan to move out as school lets out. No, I don't get any updates on this nor do I initiate R discussions, so how would I as W never communicates her intentions. (I should just know).

I read other sitchs on here and one thing that sticks out from the seasoned sages is the idea that WAS/WW take measures to keep LBS in check.

Now I would never have thought my W would be capable of such a dubious measure. She in my experience has never been able to act in a way contrary to her feelings. An undifferentiated self if you will.

Is this part of the spell or fog or paradigm shift that is typical of these Ss?
Please shed some light on the subject.