Steve, the doctor is not the issue in this sitch. The issue is within the mindset of Jim's wife! Therefore, if they move away from the doctor and the OM......her mindset moves with them. Until she works through the real issues, there will always be men on the scene (where ever they choose to live) and she will be tempted to push boundaries. The reason I direct this to you, is b/c it's important that you see how the doctor and OM are manifestations of her deeper issues. That's not to excuse her behavior in any way, but moving away from every man that comes on the scene, is not the answer. It worries me, greatly, that you would gladly be in that position.
Oh I agree 100%. The problem is that doc and OM have history with her. That's what makes her mindset especially problematic around them. Otherwise what is the point of no contact with the OM.
I'm not suggesting a move, but I think Jim should have taken her up on her offer of quitting the job. Should could have always found another one. It would have gotten het away from doc, and shown her resolve to work on the MR. Like I said before, I think her offer to leave her job was a ploy knowing Jim would say no. If he'd called her on her bluff I think the rebellion to the boundaries would have occurred much quicker.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
